Let's Talk about Abortion

I am going to do my best here to not offend anyone, this is just my personal opinion, keep in mind that I am a very open person...so here goes.

Abortion is a pretty big subject in the world. The ongoing question being, should abortion be legal, and who does the choice belong too?

Abortion is a controversial topic simply because some say it is killing a child. Abortion is a way of birth prevention where the embryo is let's say "removed" form the mothers body. I personally think the reason this is so controversial is because people can not agree on whether it is really killing or not.
Sigh, I am rather scared of writing this :D
Let's start with , legal or not.
I think it should be legal, now before you think WHAAAAT, let me finish.
When a woman or a couple wants an abortion they are basically saying they do not want the child, so when the child is born there is a chance it will not get the love it deserves. In some cases I guess that can change.
However, as much as I think it should be legal, there should be a limit on the time it is allowed to abort a child. lets say the 7th or 8th month when the child is basically formed that should be a limit, or even earlier. If there is still neglect for the child at that point, then adoption is always a good choice, many families are unable to conceive and are looking to adopt. But before that "really formed" development time I think abortion should be allowed.
Now, the question of whose choice it is.
Of course primarily of the Mother. I say this because the mother does have to go through the pain of childbirth and receiving the abortion operation (i don't know if it hurts or not). Finally the mother also has to live with the thought forever.
Although the father should be able to have some say as well, even though I believe the mother should overrule, again her body her rules.
Apart from that, no other members of the family should be involved in the decision, simply because grandparents for example are of course traditional and will not agree and might make their lives harder.
Mother and Father are the only people in the creation of a child and are the only ones who should have a say in the decision, yet in the end the mothers decision is more impacting in my opinion.

That is all I have to say to this topic, you may do with that information whatever you want, I am sure many agree and a lot disagree, and that is how it will always be to be honest, the world is not perfect.

Vinnie...